The Gift of a Soul That Understands Yours
For Benisse Elsa Manzi, on her 28th birthday. Reflections on friendship, gratitude, and the quiet ways God sometimes loves us through people. Some people enter your life so early that you don’t yet realize how deeply they will shape your story. You meet them in ordinary places, classrooms, hallways, conversations that seem small at the time. Nothing about the moment suggests that this person will one day become someone whose presence will echo through years of your life. And yet sometimes, that is exactly what God is doing. Today my best friend turns 28, and thinking about her birthday has made me pause and look back at the friendship we have carried since we were fourteen years old. When you are fourteen, you don’t know what it means to grow alongside someone for years. You don’t know how many versions of yourself still exist ahead of you , the questions you will wrestle with, the dreams that will change, the steps of faith that will scare you, the moments when you will need som...